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Bakit me mga taong walang pakiramdam?

Di naman sa nagrereklamo ako pero me mga tamang oras sa bawat pagkakataon. Madali akong kausap, di ako mareklamo. Sa katunayan nga hanggat matitiis ko, titiisin ko dahil marunong akong umintindi. Lalo na sa mga tinuturing kong kaibigan. Di tayo pinanganak nun unang panahon pero siguro naman tumingin tayo ng pagkakaiba sa mga taong nasa paligid natin.

Pero sana kahit konting konsiderasyon. May mga taong matutulog at may trabaho pa kinabukasan.....

Gusto ko naman sanang matulog ng mahimbing na walang pangamba.....

SOP Trip

He's Just Not That Into You (the no-excuses truth to understanding guys)

by: Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo

YOU ARE ALL DATING THE SAME GUY…..

(1) He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Asking You Out… because if he likes you, he will ask you out
What needs to know…
- An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of “ruining the friendship”.
- Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking.
- If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
- Just because you like to lead doesn't mean he wants to dance. Some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason.
- “Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's party/any bar/friend's house” is not a date.
- Even if you live in New York.
- Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.
- You are good enough to be asked out.

(2) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You… men know how to use the phone
What needs to know…
- If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.
- If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he's okay with disappointing you.
- Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.
- If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a reccurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.
- “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you're dating.
- You deserve a fucking phone call.

(3) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Dating You… “hanging out” is not dating
What needs to know…
- Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. “I don't want to be in a serious relationship” truly means “I don't want to be in a serious relationship with you” or “I'm not sure that you're the one.” (Sorry.)
- Better than nothing is not good enough for you!
- If you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and ask.
- Murky? Not good.
- There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.

(4) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex with You… when men like you, they want to touch you, always.
What needs to know…
- People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him.
- Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better. Call a spade a spade or, more fittingly, a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that can't keep his hands off you.
- Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly. l If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy.
- There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.

(5) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex with Someone Else… there’s never going to be a good excuse for cheating
What needs to know…
- There is no excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.
- Your only responsibility in someone else's lapse in judgment is to yourself.
- Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.
- Cheating gets easier every time it's done. It's only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone's trust.
- Cheaters never prosper. (Because they suck.)
- A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn't get to be with you.

(5) He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants to See You When He's Drunk… if he likes you, he’ll want to see you when his judgment isn’t impaired
What needs to know...
- It doesn't count unless he says it when he's sober. An “I Love You” (or any semblance thereof) while under the influence of anything stronger than grape juice won't hold up in court or in life.
- Drinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelings. Otherwise people wouldn't smash empty beer cans against their skulls or stick their fingers in fire to see if they can feel anything
- If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he's inebriated, it ain't love–it's sport.
- Bad boys are actually bad.
- You deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you.

(6) He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want to Marry You… love cures commitment-phobia
What needs to know…
- “Doesn't want to get married” and “Doesn't want to get married to me” are very different things. Be sure about which category he falls under.
- If you have different views about marriage, what else are you not on the same page about? Time to take inventory.
- If you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?
- There's a guy out there who wants to marry you.

(7) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up with You… “I don’t want to go out out with you” means just that
What needs to know…
- You can't talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
- Breakup sex still means you're broken up.
- Cut him off. Let him miss you.
- He doesn't need to be reminded that you're great.
- He can take care of his cat.
- “Classy” doesn't “break into his answering machine.”
- There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

(8) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disappeared on You… sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself
What needs to know…
- He might be lying in the hospital with amnesia, but more likely he's just not that into you.
- No answer is your answer.
- Don't give him the chance to reject you again.
- Let his mother yell at him. You're too busy.
- There's no mystery–he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you. Our Super-Good Really Helpful Workbook We'd have an exercise if we really thought this guy was worth the time, but he's not. So take the afternoon off and go out and have a good time.

(9) He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (and Other Insane Variations
of Being Unavailable)… if you’re not able to love freely, it’s not really love
What needs to know…
- He's married.
- Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.
- There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with.
- If a guy is yelling about his ex-wife or crying over his last girlfriend, try to find someone else to take you to the movies.
- Don't be that girl.
- You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
- He's married.

(10) He's Just Not That Into You If He's a Selfish Jerk, a Bully, or a Really Big Freak… if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy
What needs to know…
- Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.
- You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time. (You have to be nice to them, too.)
- There's never a reason to shout at someone unless they are in imminent danger.
- Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.
- You already have one asshole. You don't need another.
- Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve.
- Have faith. What other choice is there?

(11) Don't Listen to These Stories
Sure. There are the stories. Guys that get pursued by some girl first and she ends up being the love of his life; the guy that treats this girl that he sometimes sleeps with like shit for a couple of years, but she keeps at him and now he's a devoted husband and father; the guy who doesn't call a girl that he's slept with for a month, and then calls her and they live happily ever after; the woman who is sleeping with the married guy who she ends up marrying and having a blissful long-term marriage with. We don't want you to listen to these stories. These stories don't help you. These stories are the exceptions to the rule. We want you to think of yourself as the rule. Thinking of yourself as the exception is what got you into this mess in the first place. Tell your friends to stop telling you these stories. Whenever you hear one of these stories, a story where some woman was treated badly but it all worked out okay in the end, just put your hands up to your ears and go “la-la-la-la-la!” You are exceptional, but not the exception!!

Only in UAE

I have been taking pictures of some signs of WIT, or i'd rather say AT WITS END signs. And t'was fun..... of course, hindi rin patatalo ang Dubai sa mga ito.....

hmmmm. d kaya bastos toh para sa muslim country?

magaling din sila sa mga short cuts.... ALMINUM

hindi kaya matagal un 1 oras nila?

this sounds bad to me..... can anybody tell me what this means?

masyadong umaalingawngaw ang toyota dito....

Eto matindi toh.... tingnan ko lang kung makayanan nyo!!!!

sa ngaun yan pa lang nakokolekta ko.... madami pa.... this won't be the last.... :D

WHY I LIVE IN THE PHILIPPINES

Caution: this thing is intended only to entertain. Just got this from a good friend of mine.

When I travel, people often ask me why I live in the Philippines ? Well here it is...

It is the only place on earth where...

1. Every street has a basketball court.

2. Even doctors, lawyers and engineers are unemployed.

3. Doctors study to become nurses for employment abroad.

4. Students pay more money than they will earn afterwards.

5. School is considered the second home and the mall considered the third.

6. Call-center employees earn more money than teachers and nurses.

7. Everyone has his personal ghost story and superstition.

8. Mountains like Makiling and Banahaw are considered holy places.

9. Everything can be forged.

10. All kinds of animals are edible.

11. Starbucks coffee is more expensive than gas.

12. Driving 4 kms can take as much as four hours.

13. Flyovers bring you from the freeway to the side streets.

14. Crossing the street involves running for your dear life.

15. The personal computer is mainly used for games and Friendster.

16. Where colonial mentality is dishonestly denied!

17. Where 4 a.m. is not even considered bedtime yet.

18. People can pay to defy the law.

19. Everything and everyone is spoofed.

20. Where even the poverty-stricken get to wear Ralph Lauren and Tommy Hilfiger (fake)!

21. The honking of car horns is a way of life.

22. Being called a bum is never offensive.

23. Floodwaters take up more than 90 percent of the streets during the rainy season.

24. Where everyone has a relative abroad who keeps them alive.

25. Where wearing your national colors make you baduy.

26. Where even the poverty-stricken have the latest cell phones. (GSM-galing sa magnanakaw)

27. Where insurance does not work.

28. Where water can only be classified as tap and dirty.

29. Clean water is for sale (35 pesos per gallon).

30. Where the government makes the people pray for miracles. (Amen to that!)

31. Where University of the Philippines where all the weird people go.

32. Ateneo is where all the nerds go.

33. La Salle is where all the Chinese go.

34. College of Saint Benilde is where all the stupid Chinese go and;

35. University of Asia and the Pacific is where all the irrelevantly rich people go.

36. Fast food is a diet meal.

37. Traffic signs are merely suggestions, not regulations.

38. Where being mugged is normal and It happens to everyone.

39. Rodents are normal house pets.

40. The definition of traffic is the 'non-movement' of vehicles.

41. Where the fighter planes of the 1940s are used for military engagements and;

42. The new fighter planes are displayed in museums.

43. Where cigarettes and alcohol are a necessity, and where the lottery is a commodity.

44. Where soap operas tell the realities of life and where the news provides the drama.

45. Where actors make the rules and where politicians provide the entertainment.

46. People can get away with stealing trillions of pesos but not a thousand.

47. Where being an hour late is still considered punctual (Grabe talaga 'to!)

48. Where the squatters have more to complain (even if they do not pay their tax) - than those employed and have their tax automatically deducted from their salaries.

49. And where everyone wants to leave the country!

FILIPINO SIGNS OF WIT:

1. The sign in a flower shop in Diliman called Petal Attraction.

2. Anita Bakery

3. A 24-hour restaurant called Doris Day & Night

4. Barber shop called Felix The Cut;

5. A bakery named Bread Pitt

6. Fast-food place selling 'maruya' (banana fritters) called Maruya Carey.

7. Then, there are Christopher Plumbing

8. A boutique called The Way We Wear

9. A video rental shop called Leon King Video Rental

10. A restaurant in Cainta district of Rizal called Caintacky Fried Chicken

11. A local burger restaurant called Mang Donald's

12. A doughnut shop called MacDonuts

13. A shop selling 'lumpia' (egg roll) in Makati called Wrap and Roll

14. And two butcher shops called Meating Place and Meatropolis

Smart travelers can decipher what may look like baffling signs to unaccustomed foreigners by simply sounding out the 'Taglish' (The Philippine version of English words spelled and pronounced with a heavyFilipino accent such as:

15. At a restaurant menu in Cebu 'We hab sopdrink in can an in batol' [translation: We have soft drinks in can and in bottle].

16. Then, there is a sewing accessories shop called Bids And Pises - [translation: Beads and Pieces --or-- Bits and Pieces]

There are also many signs with either badly chosen or misspelled words but they are usually so entertaining that it would be a mistake to 'correct' them like.......

17. In a restaurant in Baguio City , the 'summer capital' of the Philippines : 'Wanted: Boy Waitress'

18. On a highway in Pampanga: 'We Make Modern Antique Furniture'

19. On the window of a photography shop in Cabanatuan : 'We Shoot You While You Wait'

20. And on the glass front of a cafe in Panay Avenue in Manila : 'Wanted: Waiter, Cashier, Washier.' Some of the notices can even give a wrong impression such as:

21. A shoe store in Pangasinan which has a sign saying: 'We Sell Imported Robber Shoes' (these could be the 'sneakiest' sneakers);

22. A rental property sign in Jaro reads: 'House For Rent, Fully Furnaced' (it must really be hot inside)!

23. Occasionally, one could come across signs that are truly unique - if not altogether odd. City in southern Philippines which said: 'Adults: 1 peso; Child: 50 centavos; Cadavers: fare subject to negotiation.

24. European tourists may also be intrigued to discover two competing shops selling hopia (a Chinese pastry) called Holland Hopia and Poland Hopia - which are owned and operated by two local Chinese entrepreneurs,Mr. Ho and Mr. Po respectively - (believe it or not)!

25. Some folks also 'creatively' redesign English to be more efficient. The creative confusion between language and culture leads to more than just simple unintentional errors in syntax, but in the adoption of new words,' says reader Robert Goodfellow who came across a sign .....HouseFersallarend' (house for sale or rent). Why use five words when two will do?

26. According to Manila businessman, Tonyboy Ongsiako, there is so much wit in the Philippines because 'We are a country where a good sense of humor is needed to survive.' We have a 24-hour comedy show here called the government and a huge reserve of comedians made up mostly of politicians and bad actors.

Now I ask you where else in the world would one want to live?

keeping up

i have deleted some of my posts. i guess i really have to move on with my life from now on. it will just be a reflection of my remorse which i do not want to happen.

that's life and i must go on......